As I rode behind Nathan this morning on our last bike ride before school starts I felt a little sad. I will miss our morning rides together. He doesn't talk to me or tell me about his plans or communicate much during our bike rides or walks because of his autism, but I've enjoyed being with him. I guess I am sad for the summer to end and for school to begin again. I didn't used to feel this way when my kids were younger. I couldn't wait for them to go back to school--but now that they are older, I almost wish they didn't have to go. Sigh! Another year--here we go!
Follow my journey of lessons learned on my life's detours with 2 normal kids, 2 kids with autism and how I have found peace in being "Normal for me."
Tuesday, August 23, 2016
Thursday, August 18, 2016
Growing Up
Jacob turned 14 years old this week. My how time flies! He was such a sweet boy that tried my patience as a child more than any of my other kids. His autism when he was younger made him completely fearless of any danger. I remember thinking how glad I was he was still alive at age 5. Now, he has matured so much and I am so proud of him and the good choices he is making.
So, those of you with little ones that are driving you crazy--take heart, they do mature as they grow up (even if they are on the autism spectrum).
Monday, August 15, 2016
Monday Missionary Musings
I now love Mondays because I get to hear from my missionary. We got this cute photo from him today--totally Jordan! He has always kept me laughing. I am thankful that he is having so many opportunities to serve--at the food bank and helping tackle a jungle of weeds in someone's yard and also teaching people about Jesus Christ. He is happy and doing well.
Thursday, August 11, 2016
Canning Now...Cleaning Later
My house is a disaster, but my kids are happy and I have this fun little canning hobby I'm getting into again. I'll clean and tidy once the kids go back to school.
I made strawberry jam from strawberries that I GREW MYSELF for the first time last week. Wow! That was pretty cool. It is also very delicious! I also made some Cucumber relish--why? Because I have a TON of cucumbers I'm harvesting from our garden right now and because the picture on the recipe online looked good. Silly reason, I know, but it does taste pretty good.
Holding Hands
Part of my schedule for Nathan during the summer months include exercise (I let him pick either walking or biking.) The other day, he picked walking, so we went on our walk through our neighborhood. There are two things on our walks that scare him--sprinklers and bugs. When he sees bugs he yells, "ouch" and veers away from them. When he sees sprinklers he usually grabs my hand and pulls me away from them (he doesn't like getting wet). The other day he grabbed my hand and held it for several minutes. It was sweet. It is nice to know that I am good for something--like comforting my 6 foot 2" son with autism who doesn't like bugs or sprinklers.
20 Years
20 years ago I married my best friend! He has kept me laughing (as he promised when he proposed) and we have had many adventures together! We have experienced great joys and grief so intense that I thought my heart would break! Life hasn't turned out quite how we expected, but through it all we have felt God blessing and guiding our lives. Feeling thankful and blessed!
Friday, August 5, 2016
Adventures with Autism
Traveling with kids on the autism spectrum isn't easy! I have this adventurous spirit though--and one of my favorite things is to visit national parks and national monuments. (By the way they do have a disability pass you can get and visit all these national parks for free). So, I do end up dragging Nathan around--sometimes happily, and sometimes quite unhappily. The iPad is a great help:). Here are some photos from the North Rim of the Grand Canyon, Waputki National Monument, Walnut Canyon National Monument and Sunset Crater National Monument that we visited last week with my sister and her family.
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